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Parrot Adoption: What You Need to Know

November 18th, 2008 · No Comments

Anna Hart asked:

2. Quaker parrots for sale

There are many ways to advertise, even with as few words as that, but do you really need to “sell” your parrots? Might you find a better home through parrot adoption?

What Is Parrot Adoption?

Parrot adoption is very much like baby adoption. Those who have parrots they cannot care for offer them to people who want a parrot. The adoptive parrot owners may not be able to afford the initial outlay, or they may simply want to give a good home to a parrot that must be relocated.

Parrot adoption does not always mean “free” parrots. The term is also used for inexpensive parrots purchased from former owners.

Finding Interested Homes

Parrot adoption requires good homes, of course, but how do you find them? One way to begin is to place a newspaper ad, as you would if you were selling. You might write: “Parrots for adoption” or “Quaker parrots for adoption to good homes” or “Adopt a parrot”.

If you are unsuccessful with ads, try contacting a parrot rescue foundation or parrot adoption organization. They may be able to put you in contact with someone wanting parrots like yours. They may have someone on their waiting lists.

Evaluating Prospective Homes

“But it’s just a parrot!” you squawk. Not really. It is a creature that will live many years. During those years, it will need health, safety, love, and happiness. You will want to try your best to provide those by asking a few questions of prospective owners – getting to know them a little. You will want to try, also, to ensure your parrot will not have to move soon again. For proper parrot adoption, begin with these questions.

1. Why do you want a parrot? One wrong answer is, “My child has been begging for one, and I think it would be cool to have a talking pet.”

2. Does anyone ever smoke in your home? Smoking can kill a parrot very rapidly, and you want assurance that yours will go to smoke-free homes.

3. What other pets do you own? Parrots have natural predators, and will not be safe or healthy if they share a home with one of them.

4. Can you afford to take the parrot to a veterinarian when necessary? Your parrots have a long life expectancy, and will need occasional visits to a veterinarian.

5. For other important questions, you should contact a parrot adoption group and get advice.

Delivering an Adopted Parrot

Once you have found good parrot adoption homes, you will want to do your best to make the transition smooth. Take your parrot’s cage (It’s his home, and you won’t need it.), his toys, perches, and the food to which he’s accustomed. Take time to get the parrot settled before you leave him. Be available to visit now and then during the first week, if asked.

The Other Side of Parrot Adoption

The flip side of parrot adoption is the adoptive family. Parrot adoption can be preferable to purchasing a baby parrot from parrot breeders or a pet store.

Your parrot will be far less expensive, in most cases. It will likely have a cage and accessories, as well, which will save money and time for you. Parrot adoption lets you skip the toddler and adolescent stages, and your bird will likely have a vocabulary, with knowledge of how to add to it. In some cases, an adopted parrot will know some tricks. It will be accustomed to human handling and – hopefully – enjoy it.

The Downside of Parrot Adoption

The upside outweighs the downside of parrot adoption, but there are things you should know.

1. How does the parrot behave? Parrot adoption is often initiated by an owner who does not want to deal with behavioral problems. The parrot may have become aggressive: biting and screeching. You will want to observe the parrot in its home before agreeing to adopt it.

2. Has the parrot ever been injured or struck with anything? You will have a lot of work to overcome this problem and get the parrot to bond with you.

3. Is the parrot healthy – and can you talk to his veterinarian? If the parrot has never been taken to a veterinarian, there may be hidden health concerns. If he has been taken, the veterinarian will be able to tell you about potential problems. Any prospective parrot adoption should include consideration of health information.

Finalizing Parrot Adoption

When you adopt a parrot, you adopt a long-term commitment. It will be your responsibility to care for the bird throughout its lifetime. It will give you affection, and will expect the same from you. Before you enter into parrot adoption, think it through carefully. Then enjoy your parrot fully.

By: Anna Hart

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Our Adoption Story

November 18th, 2008 · No Comments

yellowemt79 asked:

I made this video to show people that foster care adoption is a wonderful option for people wishing to expand their family. International adoptions and domestic newborn adoptions are very popular and I believe EVERY child regardless of where they were born or how old they are…deserve a family. But with that said, so many people can’t believe how many children are in their own neighborhoods that will never know what it’s like to have a “Forever Family”. Foster care adoption was the BEST option for out family…maybe it will be for yours too.

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Master Georgie by Beryl Bainbridge

November 16th, 2008 · No Comments

Philip Spires asked:

At first glance Master Georgie by Beryl Bainbridge suggests it might be quite a light book, an easy read, a period piece set in the mid-nineteenth century. This would be wrong. Master Georgie is no safe tale of country house manners, of marriages imagined by confined, embroidering young women. Beryl Bainbridge’s Master Georgie is anything but a tale of such saccharine gentility.

Master Georgie is a surgeon and photographer, and the book is cast in six plates – photographic plates, not chapters. Death figures throughout. From start to finish morbidity crashes into the lives of the book’s characters. We begin with Mr Moody, dead in a brothel bed, his host of minutes before in shock. Later we move to the Crimean War, where the carnage is graphic, extensive and apparently random. And even then individuals find their own personal ways of adding insult and injury to the suffering.

The book uses multiple points of view. We see things Master Georgie’s way. Myrtle, an orphan he takes in, adds her perspective. The fussy geologist, Dr Potter, imprints his own version of reality. And still there are less than explained undercurrents, undeclared motives which affect them all. Thus, overall, Master Georgie is a complex and ambitious novel. Though it is set in a major war, the backdrop is never allowed to dominate. The characters experience the consequences of conflict and register their reactions, but we are never led by the nose trough the history or the geography of the setting.

But we also never really get to know these people. Myrtle, perhaps, has the strongest presence. She has a slightly jaundiced, certainly pragmatic approach to life. But even she finds the privations of wartime tough. Why the characters of Master Georgie are all so keen to offer themselves as support for the war effort is an aspect of the book that never fully revealed itself. And ultimately this was my criticism of Beryl Bainbridge’s book. While the overall experience was both rewarding and not a little shocking, I found there was insufficient delineation between the characters and their differing motives. The beauty of the prose, however, more than made up for any shortcoming. The language created the mixed world of mid-nineteenth century politeness and juxtaposed this with the visceral vulgarities of soldiering and the general struggle of life. This rendered Master Georgie a complex, moving and quite beautiful book.

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Dian Fossey\’s Forgotten Gorilla Orphans

November 15th, 2008 · No Comments

Georgianne Nienaber asked:

Older readers may recall seeing a photo of Dian with two young gorillas on the cover of the January 1970 issue of the National Geographic magazine. Few know what became of the youngsters. This is their story.
It is February 1969. Dian Fossey has just rescued a young male gorilla from a corrupt park conservator in the Virungas who paid the notorious poacher Munyarukiko to acquire a young mountain gorilla for the Cologne Zoo. Dian learns that the cost of filling the “order” involved the slaughter of ten adults as they made one last stand in defense of the infant on the mist-shrouded slopes of Rwanda’s Mount Karisimbi. Dian strikes a bargain with the conservator. The infant has been horribly mutilated by the wire snares utilized to bind his hands and feet. Gangrene is a real possibility, and malnutrition and dehydration have already taken their toll. Dian agrees to nurse the infant back to health, at which time she will return the baby to the conservator for shipment to the Cologne Zoo, since the zoo has paid upfront and is still demanding its “cargo.” Her hope is that she will have time to convince authorities to return the infant to the wild.
Dian’s hopes were not destined to become reality. No sooner had Dian converted her storeroom to a gorilla rehabilitation facility, when there was a knock at her cabin door. The conservator had dispatched another baby, this one a female, of about three years of age, who had also been poached for the zoo. Dian (who had already been studying mountain gorillas for two years) immediately noticed that both gorillas had webbed toes on their right feet, which indicated that they might be from the same family. The orphans were named Coco and Pucker, and Dian Fossey embarked upon yet another episode in her life at Karisoke that started ripe with promise, but would end in tragedy. Dian’s plans to convince park authorities to allow her to release the babies back into the wild would never be realized.
On May 3, she was forced to watch as Coco and Pucker were nailed into a crate and loaded aboard an airplane for the trip to Germany. The young gorillas arrived in excellent condition, due to the care Dian had lavished upon them, but died within a month of each other after eight years of exhibition for the delight of human primates. Dian later wrote that she was certain that Coco and Pucker died of broken hearts.
Exactly twenty years after Dian’s death at the hands of unnamed assailants in 1985, a listing on an obscure gorilla list serve was noticed by a friend of IPPL who lives in the UK. A man had some photos of Coco and Pucker that were taken at the Cologne Zoo in 1974! His former girlfriend happened to see them playing in a grassy area and snapped a few shots of Coco and Pucker, all the while having no idea of the significance of the two young gorillas. Shirley McGreal wrote an email to the photographer, explaining that McGreal was a former friend of Dian’s, and that Dian’s own heart was broken by the shipment of the gorillas to the zoo and their subsequent deaths. After several aborted attempts to send the scanned photos by e-mail, the grainy, scratched, digital images arrived at IPPL. The photographer, Ria Bakker, graciously gave permission for IPPL to use the historic photos as Shirley saw fit. The photos offer a brief glimpse through a window in time. One in particular is rather chilling, showing a young gorilla standing upright and looking directly into the camera lens. Whether it is Coco or Pucker is impossible to tell, but it is almost as if the gorilla is reaching through the years, with eyes reminding the viewer of the consequences of humans’ bungled attempts to manage other species. Ria Bakker did not work at the Cologne Zoo, but was visiting in either 1973 or 1974, according to information she supplied to IPPL. Bakker was a zookeeper at the Wassenaar Zoo in the Netherlands. This zoo was forced to close down in 1986, due to financial problems.
“At that time I did not have a clue that Coco and Pucker were very special. I only noticed that they were different than the Western lowland gorillas in our zoo,” Bakker said.
“Coco and Pucker had two cages in the very old ape house, and the zookeepers took them out once a day to the playground in the grass, which was in the front of the building. They would play there with them for half an hour or so. Because the keepers knew that we were visiting from another zoo, we were allowed to be there and watch them,” Bakker explained.
More than thirty years after Ria Bakker first saw Coco and Pucker, the incident remains fresh in her memory. Her bittersweet reflection includes the memory that “the longer I worked as a zookeeper, the more aware (I became) of the situation of the gorillas in the wild. When I found out what happened with these two poor creatures, it just broke my heart,” Bakker wrote to IPPL.
An interesting footnote to this story is that the poacher of Coco and Pucker, Munyarukiko, was allegedly instrumental in the death of Dian’s beloved silverback Digit and remained an adversary of the gorillas for many years. Digit’s severed hands, feet, and head were buried outside of the poacher’s hut, but were removed before Dian and other officials could retrieve them. Only Digit’s torso is buried in the gorilla cemetery adjacent to Dian’s grave.

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Infanticide in China

November 11th, 2008 · No Comments

AuthorTalia asked:

Author Talia Carner interviewed on Plum TV on gendercide–killing baby girls in China through sex-selection abortions, fatal neglect and outright murder of newborns. For more, please check www.TaliaCarner.com.

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6 Essential Tips for the Novice Forex Trader

November 7th, 2008 · No Comments

Donald Saunders asked:

The first step on the road to becoming a successful Forex trader is training and there are a lot of different ways to master the intricacies of foreign currency trading. Nonetheless, although the basic knowledge acquired through training is essential to your trading success, it is just one part of the puzzle for your true success.

So, before rushing straight from your Forex training course into the live world of trading, here are several crucial tips.

1. Assume the correct outlook. The Forex traders who are truly successful know very well that attitude is vital and that adopting an attitude to do whatever is necessary to succeed is essential.

You can subscribe to all the tips sheets you like and listen to the so-called ‘gurus’ for hours on end but success is not going to come until you equip yourself with the knowledge that is necessary, carefully put together your own trading strategy and then simply get out there and do whatever your senses tell you is needed to turn a profit.

2. Pick the correct trading method. There are various different methods for predicting the direction of the foreign currency markets, and some extremely powerful software programs to assist with this task, and you will need to choose one method and stick to it.

You will need to master the skills of both charting and mapping and will have to devise your own system for judging precisely when to buy and sell. There will be gains and losses and you will find yourself questioning the method you have chosen and being tempted to ditch it in favor of an alternative method but you should resist this temptation. Once you begin chasing one method after another as a result of a trading loss you soon discover that one loss turns into two and then three and so on.

3. Be disciplined. Although this naturally follows on from sticking to your chosen trading method it is something that you need to assume in every aspect of life as a foreign currency trader. Once you have established your trading method and strategy you have to stick with it and should not permit yourself to be thrown off course by events or by the views of other people.

4. Assume the correct mental attitude. Foreign currency trading can be extremely stressful at times and the volatility of the market and the inexorable swing between profit and loss on trades may and indeed usually does produce considerable mental pressure. Learning to cope with the stresses of trading life is no less important than learning the technical aspects of trading.

5. Be willing to take a risk. A common mistake seen amongst Forex traders is the fear of taking risks. Risk and reward go hand in glove and you will not succeed if you are always avoiding risk. Taking risks does not mean throwing caution to the wind and simply diving in head first, but it does mean that, having calculated the risk, you are happy to trade uncompromisingly based upon your knowledge of the market and despite the risks.

6. Make your own trading decision. It is important that you focus your attention when it comes to trading and that you are not diverted from your course by the views of other people. You will be rubbing shoulders with individuals who are more than happy to offer you the benefit of their advice but you need to remember that the majority of them will do nothing more than talk a good trade. The truly successful traders are a rare breed and they steer their own vessel.

Rushing into Forex trading without the necessary training is an extremely precarious game but, having acquired the necessary knowledge, success will depend very much on your capacity to set a course and then steer to it regardless of anything that may come along to throw you off your course.

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Adoption Records Overview: United States

November 4th, 2008 · No Comments

Brian Williams asked:

For a country as big and diversified as the US, adoption records are very important to keep.

What is adoption?
Adoption is the lawful act of permanently admitting a child with a parent or parents other than the birth mother or father. In accordance to an adoption order a parent or parents are liable to transfer parental responsibilities and rights over the child onto the adoptive parent or parents. Once an adoption is finalized, there is no authorized distinction between adopted children and those born to the parents. According to adoption records adoption has gained persistent standing in American society.

Who adopts
At present, studies say that in the United States 1 in 5 couples of childbearing age encounter grave problems in trying to conceive a baby. For these people, being able to boast the joy of being a parent becomes a goal which is hard to pin down. They seek an adoption as a substantial alternate to their inability to ever become birth parents. Having a child to love and care for is what brings joy to millions of infertile couples around the world. Adoption is also undertaken by individuals and couples who wish to give an orphan child the love and importance of a parent in their poignant lives.

Adoption in the United States
1992 was the end year National Adoption totals were collected in the USA, however adoption records from foster care homes and other non-government bodies allows us to get a rough estimate on the numbers. Back then 127,000 annual adoptions in the U.S was recorded. As of 2002, United States consisted of 1.5 million adopted, which was over 2% of all US Children. Adoptive parents have to pay virtually nothing to US$40,000 to adopt a child.

In recent years International Adoption through agencies has also become very popular in the United States. Amid 1971 and 2001, U.S. citizens adopted 265,677 children from other countries. The figure of children pending adoption decreased from 132,000 to 118,000 during 2000 to 2004.

In 2005 the U.S. Department of State declared that 22,728 visas were given to orphans coming into the United States, 7,906 being from China(Mainland), followed by Russia with 4,639 and Guatemala 3,783.

Adoption law vary from state to state, and federal laws also influence many procedures prior and after, connected with the adoption record process. It is important that placing and adopting parents, as well as those looking for family members are aware of legislations beforehand.

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Choosing Adoption

November 2nd, 2008 · No Comments

Dan Tannar asked:

Choosing adoption is a big step. I would like to discuss a variety of topics that will help with making the decision to adopt an informed, thought provoking one. The goal of this article is to provide information and resources that will help in choosing adoption. The result, I hope, is to help any child be placed in a home where they are wanted, appreciated and loved and to provide any caring adult, tools they can utilize to make choosing adoption a reality.

Let’s begin by asking yourself, “Am I ready?”. This is a logical place to start because by choosing adoption you are choosing to change the dynamics of your life forever. This of course is said not to scare you away from the idea of adoption but to merely point out the realization of this fact. Once you have done your homework and a lot of soul searching and are still choosing to adopt, you may have come across the most rewarding experience of your lifetime.

With choosing adoption comes many decisions immediately following: What adoption agency will I use? Do I want to adopt a boy or a girl? When I adopt, will the child be an infant? 5 yrs. old? or a teenager? These are all important questions that need to be addressed.

Adoption Agencies

One must be very careful when choosing adoption agencies for obvious reasons. The search for one on the internet, you may find is a challenge. I have done some homework and have found a couple of links that may be helpful:

http://www.adoption.com – In the topics menu under adopting click “guide”

http://www.comeunity.com/ - Great for resources

Do I want a boy or do I want a girl?

My wife and I have raised 3 boys and 2 girls and I must say that it is a different experience one from the other, but rewarding all the same. This is a choice that must be thought out and discussed when choosing to adopt. Much has been written regarding adopting a boy vs. a girl and I would encourage you to visit the websites listed above as a source of information. Ultimately, this is a matter of preference. The dedication and commitment to love another human being far out weighs this choice you must make.

Through communication with your spouse, a decision should be reached. Just remember, not everyone gets to choose, so this should be a pleasant choice to make.

Choosing the age of the child

Now this is a tough one. On average more infant girls are adopted than any other age/gender combination. But looking into the various challenge of each age group, may prove to be helpful. This is where you choose how the dynamics of your life will change. Really give this decision consideration when choosing to adopt.

Responsibilities and what to expect by age group:

Infant: very dependent, may keep you up at night, feeding, changing diapers, bathing, washing, wiping, burping, parent/child play time, reading time

1-3 yrs: Crawling, walking, teeth brushing, beginning to talk, bathing, exploring, breaking household items, parent/child play time, reading time, lots of energy

3-5 yrs: Learning ABC’s, asks why a lot, exploring, human sponges, parent/child play time, bathing, child making friends, child brushing their own teeth with assistance from parents, reading time (both child and parent read)

6-8 yrs: Learning, attention span improving, lots of energy, children should be brushing their own teeth, parent child play time, wanting to do more on their own, reading time, teach them how to do chores that are age appropriate, may want to begin organized sports or activities

9-11 yrs: Study habits, learning how to do for themselves, increased chore responsibility, becoming more independent, communicating regularly

12-14 yrs: Preteen and becoming a teenager, hormones, relationships, friendships, study habits, communicating regularly, extra curricular activities, spreading their wings.

15-18 yrs: On the road to becoming an adult, education, future planning, relationships, having the “birds and bees” talk, communicating regularly

Of course this list merely scratches the surface but all in all I think you get the idea. Choosing adoption to begin or extend your family can be very rewarding. It is a big decision and through research and communication, you may find that choosing adoption is the right fit for you and your family.

Remember the best way, when choosing anything, is to be informed.

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Step-by-step Advice on How to Build a Successful Adoption Plan

November 2nd, 2008 · No Comments

Mardie Caldwell, COAP asked:

1. Set clear goals for yourself; determine exactly what you want. For example: to

adopt a child under five years old from Korea or a healthy newborn in the United States.

Start research on the type of adoption professional who can help you accomplish this.

2. Determine the steps you have to take in order to reach your goal of adopting.

List obstacles you may have to overcome (financial limitations, age etc.)

3. Identify the resources and expertise you will need to acquire to overcome the

obstacles between you and your goals. You can’t seek out an adoption professional

unless you know what sort of adoption you want.

4. Search the Internet and follow through with referrals from other adoptive

parents. Select the most successful people in the areas in which you need help with

your adoption.

5. Join positive email lists, support groups and team up with others that have the

same goals and are supportive of adoption.

6. Once you have become involved, volunteer to monitor boards or chat groups,

and become actively involved in activity of these groups. You’ll learn much more about

the adoption process and meet the kind of people that can help you.

7. Research, study and apply what you learn to continually increase your

knowledge of the process of adoption. Listen to programs such as the topics on

www.LetsTalkAdoption.com. The very best professionals are going to be interested in

helping you if they feel you are completely dedicated to becoming an adoptive parent

and willing to take the steps needed. You may show your dedication by following

through in a timely fashion, developing a plan and sticking to each step without giving

up. There is nothing that will attract people to you faster than by being enthusiastic

about what you are doing and making adoption your priority at this time in your life.

8. When you find a potential adoption professional, don’t drive them nuts by being

a nuisance. Instead, ask for 15 minutes of their time by phone, in person, or by email to

ask questions you still have after doing your research. I am always surprised when we

receive emails from visitors to our site that ask simple questions that are answered on

the FAQs page /www.lifetimeadoption.com but they just don’t want to read it. Most

professionals are very busy with their practice whether it is facilitating, law, or preparing

home studies. They are bothered by people who take up a lot of their time asking

questions when the information is clearly available online. With the flood of emails and

calls an office receives, there is only so much time one can take to answer questions.

Potential adoptive parents should make sure these are important questions that pertain

to areas not covered in the literature or on the web site.

9. When you do meet with an adoptive professional, tell him or her clearly that

you are dedicated to building your family through adoption and you have a few

questions. Let them know you would very much appreciate a little guidance and advice

that would help you move closer to your goal. Ask for a specific answer to a question or

direction on where to go to get the answer: a book, tape, or web site for example. Make

sure to ask a specific question that you haven’t been able to have answered in research

or that is personal to your situation (i.e. you are stationed overseas and want to know

how to proceed, you have been married only one year and are not sure if the adoption

professional or organization has restrictions on length of marriage.)

10. Thank them by email or note for their time and guidance. Mention that you

hope you’ll be able to work together.

11. Once you are working with a professional, keep in touch, but don’t nag them.

Ask how often you should check in and with whom will you speak. If you can check in by

email and your professional has the time to respond by email that might work for you. If

not, an occasional phone call may work better. Report back to your professional if any

changes have occurred (i.e. you have found a child through another source, or you are

in need of a break from the adoption because of an emergency, etc.)

12. Be willing to help others, perhaps as a reference for your adoption professional,

by speaking to other families. The more open you are to helping the process along for

yourself and others, the more others will be open to helping you. Learn from others that

have been through adoption and share your knowledge with people interested in

adoption. Educate the public on how different adoption is today, and that it is very

needed and appreciated by all that are touched by adoption.

Whatever adoption you decide to pursue, be sure that you have done your homework.

You will find you have fewer surprises when you know what to expect: the risks in some

adoptions, time frames, and the cost variance in each adoption. With planning, you will

be on your way to a smoother adoption and hopefully enjoyable journey.

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Teenage Jesus & The Jerks \”Orphans\”

November 1st, 2008 · No Comments

BVM0Experim0Indus0TV asked:

Teenage Jesus & the Jerks were an influential New York City No Wave music group of 1976-79 fronted by Lydia Lunch and James Chance, who later left the band after some conflict about their direction.

Reputed to play ten-minute sets of thirty-second songs (though “The Closet” and “I woke up dreaming” extended to around three minutes and performances up to twenty), they sought to take music beyond what Lunch saw as the traditionalism of punk rock (”I thought punk was lousy Chuck Berry music amped up to play triple fast”, she later commented). Their frenzied playing and Lunch’s shrieked vocals gained them a renown quickly matching and even surpassing that of other No Wave bands such as DNA or the older Mars.

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